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WARNING: This column is not for the timid! The views expressed in this column are the raw, unfiltered words of LadyJ herself, and do not necessarily represent the views of anyone but LadyJ. Persons of sensitive disposition and those with heart conditions should proceed with extreme caution!
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Today's episode of Beverly Hills 90210 will not be shown, so that we might bring you something of actual interest.
HI LADYJ IM 13 AND HAVE A WEBTV IS THERE ANY GAMES IN THIS THING AND F SO HOW DO I GET TO PLAY UM THANKS BYE BYE ASAMA T. HUSSAIN Yes, we have several games here. However, they require thought and creativity. I feel that I should warn you away from them, if not for your sake, then for ours. See, it gets awfully boring scrolling through an entire page of loser entries, to weed out the few good ones. Therefore, I am not going to tell you how to get to the games. IS THERE A CHAT ROOM IN HERE HOW DO I GET TO IT ASAMA T. HUSSAIN Why yes, there is. The way that you get to it is to hold down the Alt key, and press F4. I'm a married (somrtimes happily) 41 year old female....recently met a new man...I feel very connected to him intellectually/spiritually he talks to me alot I thought he was attracted to me...he is the son of someone I've known through work for many years...jusy met him a few months ago...he's going through a divorce. How can I tell what his real feelings are towards me? He says he is not physically attracted to me but I think he is? He's 39 You have so many reasons not to pursue this. First of all, an affair is unacceptable. Unless you have one of those new-fangled progressive relationships, and express consent from your husband, extra-marital sex is a no-no. Secondly, he is the son of someone from work. That spells trouble. Should something go wrong between you and your co-worker, things could get hairy with your new buddy. Conversely, should things get tainted between you and this new man of yours, your work environment will almost certainly be an unpleasant one. I know that you think that the two of you will be discreet. No dice. Hurt feelings make people blabbermouths. Once people at work find out, it's only a matter of time before the cuckold at home gets wind of it. Third, "he's going through a divorce." Absolutely the very worst time to pursue someone. Sure, you may get this person into bed... but only because you're preying upon the weakness that comes with the rebound. More likely than not, resentment will follow. A person going through a breakup needs time to be a person again, after having been half of a couple for so long. Fourth, and most importantly, he says he is not interested. No means no. You have to take his word on that. Very few men in this world will say that they don't find a woman attractive if they really do. He is not for you. While nothing can prevent you from feeling how you feel, acting upon your feelings is just not always appropriate. It is especially inappropriate in this situation. |
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Born and raised in NYC, LadyJ developed a quick wit and an acid tongue to entertain her friends, and cut down those foolish enough to oppose her. This abrasiveness earned her a reputation as a heartless bitch in some circles, but those closest to her still believe she has a great capacity for understanding and caring, and a talent for advice. On this website, LadyJ offers herself both to help those who ask her advice, and to entertain those who find her humorous. Those who fall into neither category are leftovers, and we all know that no one likes leftovers. So, if you have a problem that you need help with, and the courage to accept her advice...
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